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This conflab all got a bit serious and righteous....
I mean lets face it, there are of course sound people of both sexes and vice versa. Problems are in both cases that a lot of peeps have a chip on their shoulder. Certainly a lot of English Lasses have a chip on their shoulder. They want to be like blokes, but at the first opportunity moan about how they're life is soooo tough with the periods etc and how we actual blokes are stoopid, basic, idiotic blah blah.... yet they want to be right laddettes.
Basically I think some people will say anything and use any wrangle to try to make other people feel bad and sorry for them, but they are just lining their victims up for a kick in the teeth. This obviously goes for both sexes. Now I've had awesome girlfriends and real headfuck girlfriends....but often the awesome ones end up being real headfucks after a year or 2 when they decide for you: no more ravin, no more gettin high, no goin out on the weekend, role call at 6am sharp etc etc. Wierd thing is that usually the reason I got the girl in the first place was coz she was into all those things just like me. Yet some wierd nesting and power thing evolves and they decide I have to change. WTF? Why did they go out with someone like me if they don't want me to be me?
Now it may well be similar for most women, but hey it is odd how generally girls are like enamoured by ones personality and activities....and then try to stop one doing the very things thay said they liked about you in the first place.
The classic line is that:
Women want their men to change (they like to play dolls houses....I get fed up with forever being told men don't grow up, well wot about most women, all they want to do is play freakin dolls houses. Put Ken here, now move him there etc etc)
Men want their women to stay the same (that's funnily enough why we picked them in the first place. And yes women can say we don't grow up, but hey look in the mirror)
Now I know this can all be superseeded and there are great balanced relationships out there. But in my personal experience, what it usually turns into is a freakin nightmare after a short and very wonderful period where we both got on like magic. For one reason or another this situation evolves. And then eventually I realise that this isn't a relationship of equality, which is what I want, and so I get out.
As for the dresscode of the woman.....well it may have some bearing in severe cases of slaggish gear, but generally I think it is not a safe measure of a woman whatsoever. I know plenty of girls who dress in tracksuits who are a lot more brainless and shallow than girls who like to enjoy looking sexy.
I love women, and I actually have my eye very gently on one right now hehe.....so I hope this will be the paradise K & D speak of. And I say unto u pair - fairplay and long may it last. All I want is that - a relationship without the bullshit. Without powerstruggles, without emotional blackmail, without the woman getting upset I don't get jealous and so trying harder and harder to make me jealous - without the rest of the shite. Evolved people without the need for that crap. I want an equal and a deep friend as well as a hot little something under the hood
lets keep our fingers crossed.
(phew - sorry - rant over)
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